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When selecting a spouse for a loved one, the qualities sought after can vary greatly. Would physical attractiveness, intelligence, kindness, and industriousness top the list, or would spiritual devotion take precedence? This was the question Abraham grappled with as he sought a wife for his son Isaac, through whom Jehovah promised to bring blessings to Abraham’s descendants.

The Quest for a Worthy Spouse

Abraham, now advanced in years and aware of the importance of Isaac’s role in Jehovah’s promise, resolved to find a wife for Isaac who was a devout worshiper of Jehovah. Given the absence of such women in Canaan, Abraham’s search extended to his homeland in Mesopotamia. Entrusted with this mission was his chief servant, likely Eliezer, who was sworn to avoid choosing a Canaanite woman for Isaac, highlighting the seriousness of maintaining spiritual integrity.—Genesis 24:2-10.

The Criteria for Selection

Upon arriving in Mesopotamia, Eliezer’s prayer for guidance at a local well was specific: the woman who offered both to quench his thirst and to water his camels would be the one Jehovah had chosen for Isaac. This task, requiring considerable effort and kindness, would not only demonstrate the woman’s work ethic but also her humility and compassion.

Rebekah: A Woman of Action and Faith

Before Eliezer’s prayer concluded, Rebekah appeared, embodying the virtues he sought. Her willingness to provide water for him and his camels, without hesitation, confirmed her as the chosen one for Isaac. Beyond her physical beauty and virginity, it was her swift, generous response and her actions at the well that showcased her as a woman of remarkable character and faithfulness.—Genesis 24:11-18.

Through Rebekah’s story, we observe the value of prioritizing godly qualities and devotion in significant life decisions. Her example serves as a testament to the importance of faith, diligence, and kindness, guiding principles for those seeking to align their choices with Jehovah’s will.

Rebekah’s Exemplary Qualities

In the quest for a spouse for Isaac, Rebekah emerges as a figure of virtue and faith. Beyond her beauty, she exhibits qualities that distinguish her as a woman of godly character. Let’s explore how Rebekah meets and surpasses the criteria set forth for this pivotal role.

Demonstrating Exceptional Virtue

Upon meeting Eliezer, Abraham’s servant, Rebekah’s actions reveal her to be a woman of exceptional kindness and diligence. Offering water to a stranger is a basic act of hospitality, but Rebekah goes beyond this simple gesture. When Eliezer requests a drink, she responds with immediate compliance, a reflection of her courteous nature. Yet, it’s her next actions that truly set her apart.—Genesis 24:19-21.

Rebekah voluntarily extends her generosity to Eliezer’s camels, ensuring they too are fully watered. This task, far exceeding societal expectations, showcases her remarkable work ethic and selflessness. Her persistent efforts, drawing water repeatedly, capture Eliezer’s admiration and underscore her suitability as a partner for Isaac.

A Decision Guided by Faith

Upon learning of her connection to Abraham, Eliezer’s gratitude to Jehovah is profound, leading to his inquiry about lodging. Rebekah’s positive response and her haste in sharing the news with her family further illustrate her proactive nature.—Genesis 24:22-28.

Rebekah’s family, recognizing Jehovah’s guidance in these events, readily agrees to her union with Isaac. Faced with the decision to leave immediately, Rebekah’s consent, “I am willing to go,” speaks volumes of her courage and faith. Her readiness to marry Isaac, a man she has not met, without hesitation, is a testament to her trust in Jehovah’s direction.—Genesis 24:29-59.

A Union Blessed by Faith and Love

Upon meeting Isaac, Rebekah’s act of veiling herself signifies her respect and submission, qualities cherished in a marital relationship. Isaac’s love for Rebekah, undoubtedly fueled by her exemplary character, marks the beginning of a blessed union.—Genesis 24:62-67.

Rebekah’s story is not just about fulfilling a role; it’s about demonstrating faith, initiative, and a willingness to serve beyond expectations. Her decision, driven by a deep-seated faith in Jehovah’s providence, sets a profound example for all who seek to align their lives with divine guidance. Rebekah, indeed, embodies the ideal qualities of a spouse, making her the perfect choice for Isaac.

The Early Years of Rebekah’s Twins

Rebekah’s journey into motherhood was marked by a significant period of waiting and a challenging pregnancy. After 19 years of childlessness, she conceives twins, experiencing a tumultuous pregnancy that prompts her to seek Jehovah’s guidance. Jehovah’s response to Rebekah is profound, promising her that she will be the mother of two nations and foretelling the reversal of traditional roles: “the older will serve the younger.”—Genesis 25:20-26.

The Diverging Paths of Jacob and Esau

The differences between Rebekah’s sons become apparent as they grow. Jacob is described as “blameless,” contrasting sharply with Esau, whose indifference to spiritual matters leads him to trade his birthright for a single meal. Esau’s marriages to Hittite women further exemplify his disregard for the spiritual values held dear by his family, causing Rebekah and Isaac great distress.—Genesis 25:27-34; 26:34, 35.

Rebekah’s Intervention for Jacob’s Blessing

Despite the lack of explicit biblical commentary on Isaac’s awareness of the prophecy regarding his sons, Rebekah and Jacob know that the patriarchal blessing rightfully belongs to Jacob. Upon learning of Isaac’s intention to bless Esau, Rebekah takes decisive action, reminiscent of her youthful zeal. She instructs Jacob to fetch two young goats for her to prepare a favored dish, intending for Jacob to impersonate Esau and receive Isaac’s blessing. Jacob hesitates, fearing discovery and a curse, but Rebekah reassures him, willing to bear any curse on his behalf. After preparing the dish and disguising Jacob, she sends him to Isaac.—Genesis 27:1-17.

Understanding Rebekah’s Actions

Rebekah’s actions, while controversial to some, are not condemned within the biblical text, nor by Isaac upon realizing Jacob has received the blessing. Instead, Isaac reinforces the blessing. Rebekah’s actions are driven by her knowledge of Jehovah’s prophecy regarding her sons. Her intervention aligns with Jehovah’s will, ensuring Jacob secures the blessing destined for him, as underscored by the apostle Paul’s reflections on the matter.—Romans 9:6-13.

Rebekah’s story underscores the complexities of faith, the challenges of family dynamics, and the profound impact of divine prophecy on individual destinies. Through her actions, Rebekah plays a pivotal role in the fulfillment of Jehovah’s promises, highlighting the intricate interplay between divine will and human agency.

Jacob’s Journey to Haran

In a pivotal moment within the narrative of Rebekah’s family, she orchestrates a plan for Jacob’s safety, effectively directing the course of biblical history. Understanding the depth of Esau’s anger towards Jacob for receiving Isaac’s blessing—a blessing obtained through subterfuge—Rebekah advises Jacob to flee to Haran. This decision is not solely for his safety but also serves a greater purpose in the unfolding plan of Jehovah.

Securing Isaac’s Approval

Rebekah approaches Isaac, not by highlighting Esau’s wrath, but by expressing her concern over the possibility of Jacob marrying a Canaanite woman. This concern resonates deeply with Isaac, leading him to command Jacob not only to flee from Esau’s anger but also to seek a wife from their own kindred who shares their faith and values. Isaac’s directive aligns with Rebekah’s intentions, marking a significant moment in Jacob’s life and ensuring his path aligns with Jehovah’s plans for the future nation of Israel.—Genesis 27:43–28:2.

Rebekah’s Legacy

Rebekah’s story is one of profound faith, courage, and strategic wisdom. Her beauty is notable, yet it is her devotion to Jehovah and her family that truly defines her legacy. Abraham’s search for a wife for Isaac prioritized godliness and virtue, and Rebekah exceeded these expectations with her faith, zeal, modesty, and hospitality. These attributes underscored her actions and decisions, making her an exemplary model for Christian women. Rebekah’s life reflects the qualities Jehovah values in his servants, showcasing the impact of godly devotion beyond mere external beauty.

Through her actions, Rebekah played a crucial role in the biblical narrative, her decisions influencing the formation of Israel and demonstrating the importance of faith and obedience to Jehovah’s guidance. Her legacy is a testament to the power of faith and the significance of making choices aligned with divine will, offering valuable lessons for all believers.

About the Author

EDWARD D. ANDREWS (AS in Criminal Justice, BS in Religion, MA in Biblical Studies, and MDiv in Theology) is CEO and President of Christian Publishing House. He has authored over 220+ books. In addition, Andrews is the Chief Translator of the Updated American Standard Version (UASV).